There is nothing worse than sitting in a bar or restaurant with a date and there being an awkward silent, you sitting there struggling to think of something funny or interesting to say.
When you are dating a girl, who is just in her early 20s it isn’t surprising you might struggle to find something to talk about that you are both interested in.
When you starting dating older mature women you will instantly notice how the conversation always flows easily because they have the life experience to be able to hold a conversation or have an opinion on a wide range of topics.
This point kind of comes back round to the first two point above, women above a certain age aren’t baby crazy, their hormones aren’t telling them to find a guy to get them pregnant and fight off other women they see as potential threats.
Another great thing about dating an older woman is that she doesn’t want kids, if she is a MILF (Mother I’d Like to F*ck) in the truest sense then she already has kids and mostly likely probably isn’t looking to have any more
They are over all the drama and BS that you will find often comes with dating a girl in her 20s, they don’t get crazy jealous over stupid little things and they just want to enjoy the good things in life, like dating a much younger guy!
Most older women in their 30s, 40s and 50s have their shit together and are independent; they have their own car, their how home and their own money.
Firstly, it means they won’t be dependent on you, they won’t be expecting you to pay for stuff, which I know, as a young guy, can be a struggle when you are just starting out in life and don’t have loads of spare cash to burn. They will probably also have their own home which you can go back to for hookups which is better than bringing them back to your parents’ house or a shared house.
Secondly you will know that because they have all the material stuff in life they want, the only reason they are hooking up with you is because they WANT TO HOOKUP WITH YOU!
How many girls in their 20s do you see hooking up with guys just because they have a nice car? Younger women care more about material possessions, when you start dating older women this isn’t a problem.
After you have dated a few mature moms, you will discover that they are past that stage in life where they are thinking about starting a family, because they already have one. There is never going to be the pressure or the point in the relationship where you have to have ‘the conversation’ about starting a family.
If you are a guy in your late teens or early 20s the last thing you are thinking about is having kids, and when you are dating an older woman 10, 15 or 20 years older than you she is in the same headspace mentally when it comes to the idea of having kids – the perfect match!
Also, when you are dating, or just hooking up with a mature woman for casual sex you will quickly notice they she is not so concerned about getting pregnant as her younger counterparts, this is partly due to the points mentioned above and partly due to biology, women’s fertility starts to fall dramatically after the age of 30 so she will be less concerned about becoming pregnant agency lovefort ladies during your bedroom sessions.